• Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Three Tidbit B: Pineapples are Sweet on the Inside

    If you have stuck with my blog this long, Thank you. I can’t even tell you how it feels to be transparent with the world and find out that the world still loves you. So let’s continue our journey, shall we? Along with Laughter to make your insides sweet you also have to find passion in being a humanitarian. WARNING: Some content may be disturbing in this section. There are so many women that have inspired me along this journey to be a better person. I love to embrace the power of women like Rosa Parks who said, “To bring about change, you must not be afraid to take the…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Three Tidbit A: Pineapples are Sweet on the Inside

    On to a new section my fellow Pineapples. Thanks for sticking with me this far. Let’s get our sweet on! How many men have you heard say “Ah, man, I miss her laugh!” or “Oh, the way her laugh lit up the room!” and look off into the sky and smile when he misses a woman in his life? That is because laughter sparkles like a splash of water in the sunlight. A woman’s laugh can make her smile her sexiest curve. That man could pick that woman out in a crowded room because he would be able to recognize her laugh anywhere, anytime. That is one of the things…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Two Tidbit D: Pineapples have a Tough Exterior

    Thank you for returning to my blog. We need to expand on why it is vital for a woman to pay more attention to a guy’s actions and not his words. I had a very devastating relationship during this journey. This guy was the master of manipulation. He was the King of breadcrumbing, and I followed the crumbs straight off a cliff into freezing waters. He was the nation’s top salesperson for a lawn care company. He made tons of money manipulating people, and he did not leave the manipulation at work. It came home with him as well. This relationship took me out at the knees and left me…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Two Tidbit C: Pineapples have a Tough Exterior

    Walking away from things that pull you from your utopia can defiantly be related to dating or relationships in general. I am going to touch a little bit more on dating in this section because it can build you up to cloud 9, but it can also rip the confidence right off you and have no shame for doing so. There is a very dark side to some relationships, and there is never any reason for a woman to settle for a wrong anyone who is in her life. This portion of my text does not relate to every guy that you will encounter during dating, but you will meet…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Two Tidbit B: Pineapples have a Tough Exterior

    Thank you for coming back! It means a lot to me that people are getting something out of what I am writing. One thing that a pineapple has to be aware of is Gaslighting. Gaslighting is the most prominent thing I need to discuss in this section. Gaslighting is significant and damaging. You need to be mindful of when it is happening to you, and you need to be strong enough to get out of ANY relationship where gaslighting is involved. Psychology today put out an article called “11 Warning Signs of Gaslighting. Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic used to gain power. And it works too well.” Dr. Stephanie Sarkis…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice Two Tidbit A: Pineapples have a Tough Exterior

    Hello again! Thank you for returning to my blog and reading more! Let’s get to it, shall we! To become the best version of yourself, you must learn to turn rejection into the most magnificent party ever! Rejection is an opportunity to grow, and it should never, ever be anything else but that. Some people will reject you because you are a diamond. You dazzle in the light and shine to way to bight for them, that is ok, you are a diamond dear; they cannot break you. Diamonds are often looked at but never possessed by the people who cannot afford them. You need to remember that you being…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice One Tidbit D: Pineapples Stand Tall

    We are in the last phase of loving yourself, Phase IV. I am going to touch a little bit on dating in this section and again in the next part. Even if you already have a partner, there is still valuable information in this section. As a single woman, you have a lot of opportunities to find what you want in a partner. There are so many experiences that an individual can have if they just open their hearts to others and treat them respectfully, it does not even mean romantically. We spend so much time rejecting people that don’t fall into the social norms we restrict who we invite…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice One Tidbit C: Pineapples Stand Tall

    If you are still with me for Phase III of loving yourself, thank you. This phase is where you add your own personal flair. The part where you turn your sassy spirit up. I want to hear you scream at the top of your lungs “Today is my Jam!!!” You put on your h*ll yeah, bad a**, booty-shakin’ good vibe pants when you got dressed this morning. You are one amazing chick, and I mean that. Confidence is beauty, and it is the best kind of beauty out there. You need to go see the movie “I Feel Pretty.” That movie will put confidence into a new perspective for you.…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice One Tidbit B: Pineapples Stand Tall

    Welcome to Phase II of loving yourself. In the Mental Health Aid class, that I took, there was that little side discussion about the stomach. The conversation was about the gut being the second brain and having its very own nervous system. The good news in all of this is those gut feelings are now scientifically proven to be real. Your gut also must have the right amount of good gut bacteria for the body to function appropriately. Gut bacteria can alter your mood, did you know that? What you eat does matter. Many mental illnesses and medical illnesses can be controlled with proper diet and exercise. I found this…

  • Femme Fatale Motivation

    Slice One Tidbit A: Pineapples Stand Tall

    One of the best T-shirts, Feminine Funk put out, says “She embraced her stretch marks, fell in love with her cellulite, flaunted her rolls & gave zero f*cks what anyone said, and she lived happily ever after. The end.” My sweet pineapple you can only stand tall if you learn and apply self-love to your everyday routine. I know, I know this section is going to sound like the same things that you have heard people try to drill into your head over the years. The stuff you brushed off and balked about with your friends from time to time. These are things that I had the pleasure of experiencing…